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Enlightened Choices
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Peer Mediation
Enlightened Choices
Defining the Conflict

 

To make enlightened choices, follow three simple steps:
1.  EXAMINE THE ALTERNATIVE
  You cannot examine every alternative, but you can make  a commitment to always look at more than two possible solutions to any problem.  Think of as many different decisions you could make by "brainstorming."

2.  EVALUATE THE CONSEQUENCES OF EACH ALTERNATIVE
Decide what good would result from each possibility.  Then, take the blinders off and look for the negative consequences for each alternative.  Weigh the advantages and disadvantages of each option.

3.  MAKE A CHOICE
Remembering that not choosing is a choice in itself, take charge of the situation by making the best choice that you can with the information available to you at the moment.  An old saying, "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step," provides the message that once you have decided the direction of your journey, get on with it.  Make a decision - take a risk and get started toward your goal.

With every decision there are trade-offs, only by taking the time to weigh each option will you be able to make the best choice.

Taken from:  Conflict Resolution and Mediation for Peer Helpers
Don L. Sorenson, Ph. D. 1992

 

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